When you’re faced with a serious illness like cancer, dementia, or heart failure, at some point you’ll be dealing with tough decisions.

Should I go for the feeding tube?

Do I have the right paperwork for medical emergencies?

Is it time for hospice?

You’d like to get some guidance, but you’re not sure who to ask. You’re not sure what to ask either!

So how do you move forward?

I created How To Train Your Doctor because I never want anyone to face big decisions about their health or their loved one’s health alone. In my role as a hospice and palliative care physician, I’ve supported thousands of patients and their family members living with a serious illness. Now I’m growing a library of the topics I’ve covered at the bedside, and the insights that helped us move forward. I want you to use this information to confidently make medical decisions rooted in your values and wishes. Living with a serious illness is hard enough, so let’s make sure you’re doing it on your own terms.

Start with the posts here, then head over to YouTube and Instagram where I cover even more!

If you have a more specific question on your mind, perhaps it’s time for more personalized support. Consider checking out what palliative care support is available in your area! Or if you’d like to set up a call with me specifically, you can go here.

You can also sign up to get updates about my latest video topics down below. And as a bonus, when you sign up you’ll get your very own Goals of Care Conversation Jump Starter. The Jump Starter is your personalized “cheat-sheet” that gives you the exact words to say so that you can start talking to your doctor about your wishes. It’s simple and it’s free, so why not check it out? Sign up below and it’s yours!

Good luck out there – you got this!

Matt